There is so much hurt in the world. It is all around us. You can watch it on the news...read it in the paper...see it standing next to you in the checkout line. Each of us has a choice when faced with hurt. We can be a sticker...or a band aid. Some choose to be a sticker. They add to the hurt with unkind words, judgement, and apathy. Their sharp, prickly behavior digs in and compounds the existing injury. Others choose to be a band aid. They soothe, protect, and heal. Their compassion aids and encourages the wounded. Our words have power. I do not think it is a coincidence that Bible mentions the tongue 113 times. There are many more verses that refer to the wisdom of silence without directly referencing the tongue. Here are a few examples.
"The mouth of the righteous is a fountain of life, but the mouth of the wicked conceals violence." Prov 10:11
"When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent." Prov 10:19
"Whoever belittles his neighbor lacks sense, but he who is trustworthy remains silent." Prov 11:12
"Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life; he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin." Prov 13:3
What will you choose? The next time you encounter hurt, will you be a sticker...or a band aid?
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